Monday, December 28, 2009

Christmas in Malaysia - Love Knows No Borders


On Christmas day, after opening our gift to each other we grabbed a couple of passengers and headed about an hour south of KL to Seremban where our Branch President, Tennyson Renner, his wife, Anne, and their kids, Tennyson, Garrett, Ethan, Janella, Zach and Jezreel live. They also have a little dog named Julie and a pet spitting cobra named Sprinkles. They have a nice house which Anne has made into a beautiful home. I think that they knew we'd be feeling a little melancholy being away from our family for the holidays and graciously allowed us to share their family with them.

The Renners had also invited a bunch of other folks, most of whom were away from their homes for the holidays. Paul "Trip" Baker and his wife Kim (Kim is the daughter of my friend and fellow counselor in the branch presidency, Graham Doxey, who was back home in Utah for the holidays. Also present were fellow expats Steve Smith and Rita Miller, Daniel Olayemi from Nigeria, Eric Acheampong from Ghana (I think) and Joyce Goh, and Tina Lee from KL.

The Renners had prepared a great feast for us and we helped with some of Tobi's broccoli and cauliflower salad (which is now famous on two continents), a turkey, and two apple pies lovingly handmade by Scott. There was no lack of food and it was all delicious. We particularly love Anne Renner's Philippine pasta salad. I think we may have come home with more food than we brought.

After dinner, although we could all feel a post-feast coma coming on, we forestalled the effects by playing a few rounds of "Werewolf," a game introduced to us by the Bakers and which we love to play whenever we all get together. (Our dear readers should find this game and get it. It's great for big groups.) I got a kick out of little Zach Renner. He's about 4 and always seems to have a toy gun in hand; sometimes two. Once I caught sight of him running up the stairs with a gun in each hand and a sword stuck down the back of his shirt. You never know when the bad guys might come. (I just know that he and my grandson, Jace (also 4) would be best buddies.

Too soon, it was time to head back up the road to the big city. We thank all those who were present for helping to make this a very memorable Christmas, and special thanks to the Renners who have become very close friends. Thanks for a wonderful day.

Scott and Tobi


Sunday, December 27, 2009

Christmas in Malaysia - Branch Christmas Party



Our Branch decided this year to do a service project for our Christmas Party. We went to an orphanage to prepare a meal and give the orphanage workers a break. We had so much fun working with many members of our Branch preparing Curry Chicken, Vegetable Omelets, a yummy lime spicy chicken and warm vegetable salad. It was delicious and so much fun. Now I pride myself in my culinary prowess but when it came to cutting the carrots I was a flop. Every time Sister Ee checked my progress she kept saying that they weren't thin enough. My carrots did not get chosen to go into the omelet mixture. They had to go into the Chicken curry. Maybe next time I will do better. It is just so enjoyable to work with so many wonderful people. To visit and talk to them. The children in the orphanage are well fed and clothed but even so it is sad to see so many children without the love of parents and family. Our Elder and Sister Missionaries were on hand to interact with the children and the children sure loved them. The Branch members are such hard workers. No one has to tell them to sweep, mop, wash and clean. They just start doing it. Even the men. With so many people to work it makes the job so easy. After watching Sis. Ee do all that wonderful cooking, I want her to give me lessons.

Christmas in Malaysia - RS Dinner

Our first activity of the Christmas Season was having our Relief Society Christmas Dinner. It was so much fun working with Karen McKinley in preparing the food for this activity. We weren't sure how many sisters to expect since only about 25 had RSVP'd. We planned for 30 people. The week before Karen and I settled on a menu and unknown to each other we both made some changes to what we were going to bring so that we what we brought could be easily increased. As I took load after load of food upstairs to Karen's apartment, I kept thinking that we would have food left over for days. Well instead of the 30 we had anticipated,60 people showed up. We were thrilled and had enough food to feed them all. The program was so nice and so many of the sisters were involved in set up, clean up and participating in the program. We had a group that included our two beautiful full-time Sister Missionaries sing a special musical number that really was wonderful. It was such a treat having this program and dinner at Karen McKinley's beautiful and spacious apartment.

Christmas Letter - 2009


Merry Christmas to all of our friends and family back home.

Christmas 2009 is a new experience for Tobi and me. We find ourselves about 10,000 miles from you. Instead of cold and snow we are experiencing a Christmas of 90 degree heat and humidity. The whole world is lush and green. The only place one sees even a hint of Christmas here is in the shopping malls. They have a number of them around town and most are very upscale and go all out to decorate for Christmas and New Years.

Tobi and I have not done any decorating of our apartment. Tobi didn't think she could bear it. Too much of a reminder of family and the wonderful Christmases of past years. So in the morning we'll sleep in till 8am or so and then open the gift we got for one another. Nothing else has arrived yet, although some of the kids sent us online credit for e-books. Tobi got me a Sony "Reader" for my birthday and so now I can just download my books onto my Reader.

I have to say that when we first arrived here and for the first couple of months Tobi felt a bit overwhelmed. Everything was new and different, especially her job. She had gained a certain level of comfort in her job back home, having done it for about 14 years, but the job here was completely different and the few days of overlap with the girl she replaced were just not enough, even with the training she had received. I found myself on many evenings figuratively talking her down off the ledge. Luckily she has terrific bosses here and they are very understanding. She has learned quickly and has started to feel like she is a definite asset to the office here.

As we were preparing to come to Malaysia we wondered why we were doing this. We had our reasons for making this leap, but both of us felt as if there was another reason, or perhaps many other reasons, why we were being led here. Now that we've been here for 9 months some things are beginning to come more clearly into focus. We believe more strongly than ever that this was the right thing to do at this time in our lives. We miss our children and our grandchildren terribly. It's probably ridiculous since they are being cared for so well by their parents, but we have often thought that they need us. I guess it's more likely that we need them. It probably does us more good to play Peek-a-Boo with Jaylee or listen to Bella's stories, or see Nixon's smile than any small benefit they may derive from a few minutes on Skype every week or so.

The other day we were talking and I said to Tobi, "You know, when our time here is up and it's time for us to go home, we are really going to miss this place." That thought has given us a renewed sense of urgency to be engaged with this country, this community; because I can already sense the sadness I will feel when it's time to go. We have some friends here who are already very dear to us. The Wintheisers, the Renners, the McKinleys, the Loke family, Claire and Lilian Lim, Miow Lin, the Doxeys, Sega Appanan, the Kofoeds, our wonderful missionaries and their wonderful investigators. The list is long and I haven't done it justice. Tobi's bosses, Legal Attache Greg Gilmartin and Assistant Legal Attache Chuck O'Neal and their wives, Caryn and Colleen have been a great support.

Know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers always. Our family and our old friends are precious to us. We miss you.

As I write this is it approaching midnight on Christmas Eve. I haven't heard any sleigh bells yet but I'm sure Santa is on his way. (He starts here and works his way west. It makes sense logistically when you think about it.) Have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

Love,

Scott and Tobi

Sunday, December 6, 2009

We love the Missionaries

We had District Conference today and after the meeting we were slowly making our way out of the building stopping to visit friends here and there. We have a new Mission President, President Clark and his wife and I got to visiting together. Scott was visiting another Brother from India that not only knew his parents when they were on their mission in Goa but also our Nephew Jay, who also served a mission in Bangalore. The Elders were talking to the Sister Missionaries about how hungry they were and how they were wishing someone would invite them to dinner. I was completely engrossed in talking to Sis. Clark that I hadn't picked up on the clue but Scott heard them (they were very loud and looking at us) and said that maybe we could invite the Missionaries to dinner (also very loud). We told them we didn't have anything prepared but if they would be willing to help prepare the dinner they were welcome.
What a fun time we had looking through the free
zer and refrigerator trying to put together a dinner. We actually didn't do too bad. We had lots of mashed potatoes. I boiled and cut up chicken breasts and put them in
to the chicken gravy Scott had made. We then had carrots and yellow squash that we sauteed in butter with some dried onions and then added a little bit of parmesan cheese. A nice big green salad with avocados, tomatoes and red bell peppers added a nice touch. And to end the dinner we had yummy chocolate cake. I think I told the Missionaries that we didn't have any dessert and just as we were getting into our car to go home, President Renner's wife, Anne, gave us a chocolate cake that she had brought for her children to eat on the way home. They live an hour away. She h
ad heard the conversation between us and the Missionaries. I was so grateful for that Chocolate cake. It really finished off the dinner beautifully.
Everyone worked together, by peeling and cutting up the potatoes and other vegetables and setting the table and before too long we were sitting around the table eating our feast.

(In the picture to the right you can see Elder Wall from Park City, Utah, Sister Viehweg from Idaho, Elder Mattox from Florida, an investigator named Kong, and Sister McCurdy, also from Utah. Behind the couch next to Scott is Adrien, a recent convert.)

Along with the Missionaries we also had a new investigator, Mr. Kong and a new convert,
Adrian. We visited and t
old stories and laughed so hard at many of the stories the Missionaries
told. Scott got in a few of his old Missionary stories that I love to hear again and again.

Scott asked me if this reminded me of dinners around our table at home with our own children and it sure did. These wonderful Missionaries sure fill the hole in my heart at being away from my family.
Afterwards, we started to
clean up and then I remembered that the Sister Missionaries are singing in a special number with me and a few
other sisters for our Ward Relief Society Christmas Dinner so while the m
en finished cleaning the kitchen (and they did a fantastic job) we practiced our song.

It was a wonderful end to a perfect day.

Saturday, October 31, 2009

Back Home in Malaysia.






We had a great time on the cruise. Venice and Ancona, Italy; Santorini, Mykonos, and Corfu in the Greek Isles; Athens and the Acropolis; and Dubrovnik, Croatia. I will attach pictures.

The best part of our vacation was, of course, our visit home. We got to spend a lot of time with our kids and our grandkids. Nolan, Treo and little Jaylee Joy came up from St. George for the weekend. Jaylee is a little doll. She has the cutest smile, she scrunches up her face and puts everything into it. Nolan joined Brock, Justin and I for a round of golf at Eaglewood on Saturday morning. We won't discuss scores, but what a beautiful day and what a great time we had.

We thank Dane and Annie for letting us use our home and making room for us. We love staying in the downstairs bedroom. Sometimes we stay there during the summer when it's hot upstairs anyway. Leah managed to find us and jumped in bed with us one morning and when we would go to bed before the girls, Bella was always sure to tell us some fantastic bedtime stories. "This is not a princess story, this is a lizard story." (pronounced lithard.)

Giada, of course, having just turned one, didn't remember us and it took a few days, but she finally warmed up to us and we loved holding her and helping her walk around holding onto our fingers.

Jennie was so thoughtful and sweet to bring her boys by to see us and play with us for several hours each day. We loved playing with Jace and Nixon. Jennie also gave us the great news that number 7 (for us, not her) is on the way and should make HER appearance (maybe my emphasis will make it happen) in April. Actually she doesn't find out the gender for a few more weeks.

We're still sorry that we failed in our plans to visit the temple. We had it all planned and were out the door with Dane and Annie. We were going to meet Jennie at the Bountiful Temple and all of a sudden Tobi looked at her recommend and discovered that the one she thought was her current one, was actually an old one. Jennie went to the temple without us. I still feel bad about that.

Julia is busy with work, her singing, and dealing with all the attention she's getting from the guys these days. There are so many guys in her life now that she has to spend her time categorizing them: Good Potential; Possibilities; May Surprise Me; Have a Nice Life; etc. It puts in mind an egg farm where all the eggs roll down the tube and roll into the proper gate. She's just hoping to find the right kind of egg. Probably a lame analogy, but there you have it.

Justin and Maria are in the middle of relocating. Trying to sell their house and moving into a rental. They have sold a number of items in an effort to reduce and simplify their household. Justin arranged his schedule so as to spend more time with us, which was great.

We are back in Kuala Lumpur now. I just got back from the hospital. (This is the government run hospital where the patients are in wards of about 50 people, all in the same room, with no cooling system, just windows open to the outside. Kind of like our hospitals will be if the government runs them.) I was asked to give a blessing to the sister of one of our members. This family is from India and it seemed like everyone in the hospital ward was Indian as well. So I gave her a little lesson about blessings and faith and how Jesus blessed people, etc. and then gave her the blessing and told her that she was going to be healed and when she was, she was to learn more about Jesus and his church from the missionaries. When we finished with her and were saying goodbye, an old, old woman in the next bed, black as an Indian can get, asked us if we would bless her as well. We did so and she thanked us so humbly, with her hands together, that we were really touched. (I was there with brother Peter Ee of the branch). She will be healed too.

As I write this I am listening to one of KL's fabulous thunder storms outside. Incredible cracks and rolls of thunder that seem to be right outside our windows. Reminds me a lot of my KC days.

I hope I can get my pictures uploaded to this blog. I'm going to try.

Love you, Scott and Tobi




Wednesday, October 7, 2009

We're Heading Home!

In about 4 hours we'll be heading to the airport on our trip home. I can't believe it's been six months. In some ways it seems to have gone by so fast. But whenever we think about all the things we've missed with the kids and grandkids, then it seems we've been here a long time.

We arrive at about 4pm on Thursday afternoon after about a 30 hour trip, counting layovers in Seoul and Chicago. The flight from Seoul to Chicago is one of those interesting ones where we arrive before we leave. (We leave Seoul at noon on Thursday and arrive in Chicago at 10:15 am the same day.) Thanks to the International Dateline, for Tobi and me, Thursday will last for 38 hours. (For several years I've been wanting time to slow down. Maybe I'll get some extra things done on Thursday. I doubt it.

We had a great visit with Glenn Hinton (Tobi's sister, Vicki's husband) this past weekend. He had to come to Malaysia on business and spent several days in Penang before flying here on Friday evening. We had a late dinner at one of our favorite Thai restaurants, the Rain Noodle House. The next morning Glenn and I went upstairs to our friends house, Scott and Karen McKinley, who have been here a couple of months now and live in our same condo tower. Scott and I are both big BYU fans and we have discovered a perfect synergistic partnership. We both have Slingbox, mainly to watch BYU Sports, but I have been extremely disappointed in my internet connection speed here. It makes it nearly impossible to watch a game or anything else. Scott M. has a great connection, but, being from the east coast, he doesn't have The Mountain network, which shows most of the BYU games. Guess who does. So, I take my laptop up to his condo and we use his connection to watch the BYU games. One of these days I will actually see if I can get a connection like he has.

Anyway, so on Saturday morning at 9am, Glenn and I went upstairs to watch BYU beat Utah State. (The game was at 7pm Friday back home.) Tobi thought this was kind of lame of me to take our guest to watch a ball game, but Glenn didn't seem to mind.

After the game we took a walk over to KLCC (Kuala Lumpur City Center) Park and were going to go up to the observation deck in the Petronas Towers (the bridge between the two towers), but alas, they has already sold their allotment of tickets for the day. We did the next best thing and took a taxi to the KL Tower (this is a spire much like the Seattle Space Needle) and went up to the top of it. It's actually a higher view than at Petronas because it's on top of a hill. The view was quite impressive. We found our condo and the Embassy. Off to the west about 10 miles or so we saw this large mountain that seemed to have sheer cliffs several hundred feet high on all sides. Someone said, "That's where the Batu Caves are. This was something that Tobi and I hadn't done yet, so we had our cabbie take us to Batu. The Batu Cave is a Hindu Shrine. There is a large gold-leaf Statue over 100 feet high in front and then you have to negotiate 272 steps (they are numbered) to climb to the opening of the cave itself. The best part of this adventure was the ice cream vendor at the top of the stairs. Then, if you go down some more stairs into the enormous cave and up some more stairs, you come to a large cavern that is open to the sky at the top. It's quite a sight with ferns and vines of all kinds draping the sides of the opening which is a couple hundred feet above you. There are birds flying around and there are monkeys living inside this cavern. Unfortunately, they live off of the scraps of food that the tourists give them.

On the way back we took Glenn to another favorite restaurant, the Lemon Garden, which is a buffet of all kinds of Asian foods. Nobody left there hungry.

Tobi and I had to abandon Glenn for a couple of hours to go help with a District Music Training session. I'm sure they didn't realize that neither of us has much music training ourselves, but Tobi especially did a nice job of instruction.

On Sunday morning, after a home-cooked breakfast of eggs, bacon and toast, we summoned a taxi for Glenn and he was on his way back home. We had a great time and he promises to bring Vicki with him the next time.

I hope to see many of you while we are home, and those we don't see will just have to come and see us. You're all invited any time.

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Our trip to beautiful Phuket, Thailand.

We decided to take advantage of the 4-day "Hari Raya" holiday and travel to Phuket, Thailand. (Hari Raya is the Malaysian holiday marking the end of Ramadan.) We arrived in Phuket on Saturday afternoon and took a walk on the grounds of the Sheraton Grande Laguna Hotel. About 25 years ago this area was a played out tin mine. A developer bought the area, made a lagoon, and now there are about 7 hotels on the site. Ours was situated on an island in the middle of the lagoon and about 1/4 mile from the beach on the Andaman Sea. We were having an early dinner at an open air restaurant on the beach and were surprised to see a baby elephant nearby, giving rides to children.

After discovering that the nearest church meetinghouse was in Bangkok, a couple of hundred miles away, we spent Sunday at leisure around the hotel. We had a nice breakfast buffet, spent some quality time at the beach and took a boat ride around the lagoon. We met a really friendly fellow from Belgium named Charles. He moved to Thailand 12 years ago, has married a Thai girl and they have a couple of kids. I asked if he missed Belgium and he said that he did miss his family. When asked if he planned to go back some day, he looked at me as if I were crazy and said that since I was an American and not a European he would give me a pass. "Not a chance," he said, "they have 55% income tax in Belgium."

On Monday we took a boat ride to Phi Phi Island, which had been recommended to us. The brochure had beautiful pictures of Maya Bay, Khai Island, and Phi Phi itself, which looked incredibly beautiful. Maya Bay, the brochure tells us, is where "The Beach" with Leonardo DiCaprio was filmed. Not having seen the film, that didn't mean anything to me, but with the promise that LD himself would not be there, we thought we could safely chance it.

To say that we were disappointed would be vastly understated. It is truly a spectacular place. You enter the bay through a narrow inlet between two high cliffs and once inside there is incredibly beautiful water, turquoise in color leading up to a talcum powder beach of white sand, about 1/4 mile long and surrounded by high cliffs on all sides. What's not to like, you ask. The fact that they had about 25 tourist boats of all sizes and descriptions, all parallel parked about 15 feet off the beach, and about 2,000 tourists walking around on the beach itself. I actually felt embarrassed that we were contributing to the maelstrom. We sat on the beach in a place we felt we were not likely to be stepped on and waited for our boat to accept us back on board.

We were then taken to Phi Phi Island next (It's pronounced pee pee) where we had a very nice lunch and met some people from the UK.

Our final destination on this little trip was at a beach on Khai Island, where we spent the afternoon reading, sunbathing, and snorkeling. We discovered that there was quite a strong current flowing parallel to the beach and had to swim for about 10 minutes to get back. We nearly lost Tobi. (not really). It was here that I managed to take a picture of a Thai fishing boat that I am really quite proud of. I would love to get it printed and framed. It's the last one in my slide show below, although the slide show doesn't do it justice because you can't see the whole photo at once.

We spent Tuesday on the beach and at poolside. The hotel graciously allowed us to check out at 6pm, so it was almost like having an extra day there. We arrived home at about 1:30 AM on Wednesday morning. Tobi slept in and went to work late. It's good to be back home. Yes, we call this home now. We've been here 6 months. Now we have a great visit with family to look forward to next month. We can't wait.

Our trip to beautiful Phuket, Thailand.

Sunday, September 13, 2009

Life's little irritations.




Here is my beautiful bathroom. I love it! But can you see it? The bain of my existence. That's right the shower head that is on the ceiling.

Now this bathroom has two shower heads. I love the one just below. Every morning I turn it towards the bathtub to let the water warm up and then take a nice hot shower. But sometimes, the little knob just below the handle has been popped out which diverts the flow of the water to the ceiling shower and it gets me. It gets me with cold water, it gets my hair wet, it drives me crazy. I have done this multiple times. I think it has something to do with my age and forgetting to check the knob and make sure it hasn't been pulled out.


My bathtub is also in my shower as mentioned above. One morning as I stepped in to take my morning shower, I turned the lower shower on. I had made sure the knob was not pulled out and the lower shower head was turned toward the bathtub. Just then I noticed that my bath mat was on the tub getting soaked. I quickly went to push the handle of the shower down to turn off the flow of water but hit the lower knob instead which changed the flow of water to the upper shower head and soaked myself in cold water, drenching my hair, before I could get the water turned off. Not a good way to start the morning. Boy do I hate that upper shower head!

Actually, now that I think on it, maybe it is not the upper shower head at all that I hate, maybe it is that dang knob!!!!!


Now I don't know for sure if you can tell but those are blinds in the shower which covers a full-length window. WHO in their right minds puts a full-length window in a shower?


Such are the little irritations in my life.

















Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Home

I just read a book that talked about where your home is. It got me thinking about home. I have always thought my family was my home and they are. Each of my children fill a space in my heart reserved just for them. As they have married and given me grandchildren, my heart has increased to include each one.

I also thought a lot about my actual home in Salt Lake City and how much I loved my house. Of course it had so much to do with my children and all the memories that I have of them. It sits in the middle of neighbors and friends and Church that I love so much. As the years have gone by, I have grown to love my home more and more.

But a funny thing happened to me. I left my home, my neighbors, my friends, my church, my children and I moved half way around the world, and I still feel like I am home. My children are still so much a part of my life, my friends still love me and support me. I am experiencing the joy of meeting new friends and neighbors who I am growing to love. The Church has filled an incredible void.

But I have realized the real reason that I feel like I am home is because of Scott. He is here with me, supporting me every day. He is so fun and funny, and we really enjoy each other's company. I am one lucky girl because no matter where I am, if Scott is with me, I am home.


Saturday, August 22, 2009

Parables

We performed our Musical Production tonight of "Parables" written by Jenny Phillips. I bet when she wrote this musical production she would not have guessed that it would be performed half-way around the world and be the very first musical production done by the Church in Malaysia. I was surprised when our District President said that this was the first musical production ever done and Scott and I were privileged to have been part of it.

I have to admit I wasn't feeling very privileged this afternoon as Scott and I practiced our song over and over and over again. They wanted it memorized and that is just one of the hardest things for me to do. When I get scared the words just leave me. I did prepare a little cheat card to take with me. The funny thing is we missed practice last night where we would have had the spotlight on us for the first time. Then the practice this afternoon went too long and they had to stop just before our number so it wasn't until I got up there for the actual performance that I realized I couldn't read my card. Scott and I had had a little prayer just before we left and our song went perfectly. We both remembered all the words and sang the best we ever had. Got lots of really nice comments about how much everyone enjoyed our song.

One of our soloist's father had unexpectedly passed away, she had the most beautiful voice and it was very sad to lose her. The young lady who was our pianist knew all the songs but because she wasn't one of the better singers she didn't get any solo parts but she knew every song by heart. They asked her Friday night if she would fill in for our missing soloist and she did the most beautiful solo with such a sweet voice. I was so amazed.

Everyone who performed did an exceptional job and the program was wonderful. We had a packed house and I was so proud to have been on the program.

I forgot to take my camera but there were lots of cameras flashing so I hope I will be able to get a few pictures so send to you.

Sunday, August 16, 2009

New York, New York

I had to leave my cocoon here in Malaysia and travel to New York for a business meeting all by myself. I was more than nervous. I am just not that adventurous and was so scared to travel all the way to New York without Scott. It actually turned out to be easy. The trip was long and I only got a few hours sleep but no major hurdles. I did have a guy grab my suitcases to give me a taxi ride. I was on my way to the yellow cabs and this guy came up and asked me if I needed a cab and I told him yes. I thought he would call up one of the cabs that were waiting in line but instead he took off with my suitcase. He was going so fast I could hardly keep up. We went to the parking lot and there was this white van. I was confused and asked him if he was the Taxi driver. I was supposed to be meeting Trent at the airport but I couldn't get hold of him and I thought I must have missed him. After I got in this guy's van he had just driven out of the airport when I finally did get hold of Jamie and she told me to turn around that Trent was still there and she told me where I would find him. So the little trip around the airport cost me $25. I was sure glad to get out of his taxi though.

I spent a few days at Jamie's lovely home. It was wonderful driving around and seeing her part of the country. Trent showed me this one house close to their home that had just been built and it was the biggest house. As you turned the corner, this house just revealed itself to be bigger all the time. Absolutely amazing. I thought Jamie's house was big enough. I kept getting turned around. Madelyn wanted to play hide and seek and I told her I was afraid I would never find her, but she explained that we would only use the main level. Good thing, I did finally find her. I had fun playing games with the kids and getting to know them. I had no idea that when Jennie and Julia came that I would be completely abandoned. It was so fun picking Jennie and Julia at the train station. Man I loved being with them again.

We went to Jamie's church on Sunday and were in the same Sunday School class as Glenn Beck. Cool!!!

After church on Sunday, we took the train to New York. I had to be there for a 6:00 p.m. meeting to start my conference. Jessie Bingham Kehl came into town to visit us. It was so much fun to visit with her. She took the girls for a drive around the city and then I met them around 8:30 pm for dinner. It was so fun to visit with them. I was pretty tired. I slept in the roll bed and Jennie and Julia had the Queen bed. I had to get up early every morning to meet my group each morning around 7:00 a.m. The girls spent the day visiting the highlights of New York and shopping. We would meet each night for dinner and one night we went to see the play Mary Poppins. Jessie met us there. The girls left New York early Wednesday morning and I sure hated to see them go.

I had a good conference, it was really busy. I needed to get back to work on Monday, so I had a late night flight out of NY on Friday at 11:45 p.m. Before I even got to the ticket counter to get my boarding pass I had heard that my flight had been cancelled. What a terrible feeling to realize that my flight home was not going to go as planned. I also missed my connection in Taipei. I found that my flight had been cancelled because of a typhoon in China. I spent the night at a flea-bitten Holiday Inn. Not much sleep that night. I had to change rooms because the air conditioner did not work in the room first assigned to me. They told me they would send a repairman up to fix it. I waited about 30 minutes and finally just told them I wanted another room. I was so tired. It was after midnight by the time I finally got settled. I had an early wake up call and took off for the airport and got a morning flight out. Got to Taipei around 6:00 pm. I had to stay the night there and take another morning flight out the next day. I was so worried about making my early morning shuttle to the airport that I finally gave up trying to sleep that night. I was sure glad to finally get home on Monday just one day later than scheduled adding 24 hours to my 30 hour travel time.

I have to say that the traveling is not my favorite thing to do, but being with Jamie and family and especially being with my girls was worth that long, long trip.

I sure am glad to be back and with Scott again.

Sure wish I had pictures to show you but the first time I went to use my camera I found that my battery was dead and had forgotten to pack my charger. Sure was disappointed.

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

34 Wonderful Years!


Tobi and I celebrated our 34th Anniversary yesterday. I am so blessed to be married to Tobi. Last night we were trying to recount where we were and what our life had brought us on each of our previous anniversaries. Some of them were easy, like the first, when Tobi was in the hospital in Overland Park, Kansas, having delivered Justin just 2 days before. There was a single yellow rose in a vase on the shelf by her bed. (That has kind of grown into a tradition for us resulting in what you see here.) We were able to remember each of our anniversaries when a new child had joined us and when we had moved to a new house, but I'll have to admit, the second half of the '80s and the '90s are pretty much a blur.

I want everyone to know how much I love this beautiful lady. She is my sweetheart and my very best friend. Life is an adventure with her by my side. Life continues to bring us new challenges sprinkled here and there with wonderful experiences, stunning vistas, and exciting opportunities.

We love and miss our family and friends.

Scott

Sunday, July 26, 2009

This Week in Malaysia

Scott was sustained and set apart today as the new 1st counselor in the Kuala Lumpur Branch Presidency.  The 2nd counselor was released, so for now, Scott is the only counselor to President Tennyson Renner.  Lots of challenges.  The branch has about 300 members but only about 100 active.  There are many wonderful people in the branch and they have such strength.  We have a lot of work to do in going back to collect the sugarbeets that have fallen off the truck.  (See the message from Pres. Monson in the July Ensign.)

Tobi travels to New York this week and will be meeting up with Jennie and Julia while there.  Tobi leaves KL on Thursday, and arrives in NY on Friday.  She and the girls will be spending the weekend with Jamie and Trent Handy (Tobi's sister, Candy's daughter) and their family, until Sunday, when Tobi has to be in NY.  Jennie and Julia will be arriving on Saturday and staying with Tobi in NY until Wednesday I believe.  If Tobi can get over the jet lag quickly they should have a lot of fun.  Scott wishes he could be there, but Scott would have to pay his own way so no dice.  Tobi returns to KL on August 8th.

We are proud of our son-in-law Brock for completing the Pioneer Day Marathon with a PR, and of Julia for climbing to the top of Mt. Timpanogos (one week after skydiving for the first time.)  We are so proud of all of our kids and grandkids and their accomplishments.  Thank you all for keeping up with the blogging.  You can't imagine how much it means to us over here on the other side of the world.  Some of you could do better.  (You know who you are.)

Love,  Scott and Tobi

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Some of the things I do in Malaysia



Walk around the city and to work.



Walking around the city is interesting.  They are building new buildings everywhere and renovating many others.  If you walk past these building sites you have to be very careful because there is no protection from the work site.  On the picture above I walked right under the crane and through the mud.  On my way to work, they built new stairs for the pedestrian bridge.  Before they had even finished those stairs they blocked off the ones I use and I had to walk around the workers and there was building materials all over the stairs.  Quite a hazard.  Then the sidewalk I always walk on was ripped out and I had to walk in the street with all the traffic.  Very dangerous but no one seems to mind.

Teach the cutest and smartest class in Primary


These are the little girls in my primary class.  They are wonderful.  The Primary room was soo cold that I started bringing all my scarves to wrap them up.  Aren't they cute.  They are so smart.  They know at least two languages and some of them more.  Every week as I review the lesson from the week before they just astound me at how much they remember.  I am loving being a Primary Teacher again.

Preparing for a Musical Production of "Parables".


Scott and I are in a musical production of "Parables".  Miow Lin is our director.  She is also a good friend of ours.  We have had her over for dinner a few times and just love talking to her.  She is busy helping the Church translate the Book of Mormon and other documents into the Malaysian language.  She is also the Sunday School teacher and is a marvel.  I do miss her SS classes now that I am in the Primary.




Thursday, July 16, 2009

Lunar Ulnar

Those of a certain age will remember exactly where they were and what they were doing 40 years ago this week on July 20, 1969.  It was one of those kind of events that is life altering.  Maybe our lives weren't changed radically when Neil Armstrong stepped off the ladder of the Lunar Landing Module and onto the talcum-powder surface of the moon.  But as we watched our black and white TV screens and saw the grainy image of a man walking about "up there," our perceptions of the world and its frontiers was irretrievably altered.

I was 17 and had just graduated from Shawnee Mission West High School in Overland Park, Kansas.  We were living at 7201 Hadley in Overland Park in a nice two-story house with a basement.  My parents had the house built and we moved-in in 1965 from our old house on 70th Street, where we had lived since 1958.

My friend, Milan Monk, was spending the night and for some reason Rebecca Barker was there too, although I don't remember the circumstances of why.  Together with my parents and some of my brothers and sisters we gathered in the family room late in the evening and watched the non-stop coverage of the event.  

In my youth I had been a big fan of the science fiction genre and Andre Norton in particular. Her portrayals of alien worlds and other sentient beings in the cosmos enthralled me and made me think of great possibilities.  Now to see us, the residents of this small planet, take the first step in exploring another world, was truly a landmark event, not just in the history of America, but in the history of mankind.  Armstrong's words were so appropriate from that perspective, "That's one small step for a man, one giant leap for mankind."

Yesterday, the Embassy hosted our visiting physician from the Embassy in Singapore (we don't have our own).  I decided to make an appointment to see him.  For the past month I have had numbness in my left hand, mostly in the little finger and in the little-finger-side of the ring finger, extending down into the palm.  It's not completely numb; I can feel when I touch it with something but it feels like when your leg goes to sleep.  I thought initially that it was something that would go away as I have had similar feelings in other places that have done so.  But it didn't.  It's been constant since June 11th or so.  I have also had some attendant weakness in the fingers of that hand.  More of an annoyance than anything else, although it did cause concern that it may be something serious.  Tobi suggested that I start taking Vitamin B.

I consulted with my niece, Carrie Hanis, a Physical Therapist, and she said that it likely has to do with the Ulnar nerve which runs from the spine, through the shoulder, elbow, wrist and serves the little finger and half of the ring finger.  I told her that I thought it was something in my wrist or hand that was pinching the nerve, but she said she thought it was more likely the elbow area where your "funnybone" area is.  She offered advice of using ice and ibuprofen to reduce inflammation that may be causing the restriction of the nerve.

The Doctor told me basically the same things that Carrie had and that I needed to have a specific test done by a neurologist to determine exactly where the lack of nerve function originated and thus localize where the restriction is.

Yesterday afternoon I went to the new Prince Court Medical Center which is just a 15 minute walk down Jalan Tun Razak from our condo.  I met with a Neurologist, Dr. Hamidoon, and he set up the electric response test for me.  A couple of nurses hooked me up with some electrical sensors on my palm, wrist and fingers and then zapped me with jumper cables (just kidding).  It looked like a miniature defibrillator that they would place on my wrist, my forearm, and my upper arm just above the elbow.  This instrument was attached to a computer monitor and recorded the level and speed of the electrical current from the point of contact to the sensors.  They did both arms, I suppose for a control test.

After 30 minutes or so of my hands flapping about involuntarily from the electrical shocks, the doctor came in, looked at the results and said, "Just as I thought, it's in the elbow."  (Way to go Carrie.)

He said the next step is to have a consultation with an Orthopedic Surgeon.  I asked when I might be able to schedule that, and he said, "How about now?"  I went then to see Dr. Badrul.  He said that he wanted to do three things;  first, start me on Vitamin B-12  (Kudos to Tobi).
For treatment of the actual problem he said we could either do an MRI to see if there is something restricting the ulnar nerve, or simply begin with steroid injections, however, the steroid injections might compromise the ability to do an MRI later.  I requested the MRI and asked when I might schedule that.  He said, "How about 5:30?"

So the last thing I did yesterday was had an MRI.  That's quite an experience for those of you who haven't been so lucky.  They lay me on a table, wrapped up my left elbow in some sort of pad, strapped me in and slid me, table and all, into the cylindrical opening of this large Magnetic Resonance Imagery machine.  Then you start hearing all sorts of loud pulses and humms and vibrations, each louder and more intense than the last.  You have to lie completely still throughout the 30 minutes or so, and it starts to get warm and your back starts to hurt and you want to move and you can't, and you start thinking of evil things to do to the technician when you get out of there.  Finally it's over and they slide you out.  All I could muster was "the stare" that my kids and various inattentive drivers are familiar with.

Anyway, that's all I know up to now.  I've got some sort of an impairment of my ulnar nerve in my left elbow.  It may be treatable with B-12 or steroid injections, or it may require surgery.  All to be found out in the next few days.  I have a follow-up with the Orthopod tomorrow (Saturday).  

Dr. Brown, the Singapore Embassy Doctor wants me to send him any test results from here so that he can consult and decide if he agrees with the findings and suggest anything different.

So that's it for now.  The greatest lesson learned in this experience was, (once again) trust the women.  Thank you Carrie, Tobi, and Andre Norton.

Scott 


Sunday, June 21, 2009

This and That

The watering system at our apartment.




A picture of the American Embassy as I walk out the gate from our apartment.







Monday, June 15, 2009

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Vonage and Pythagoras

Over the past weekend we hooked up our vonage service to our computer and so now you can call us just like you did when we were at home.  Same number and everything.

Just dial 801-944-1836 and (if we're home and it's not the middle of the night) we'll answer.  

Tobi wanted me to let you know about my experience last week at Youth Conference.

There were about 160 kids from the Western Malaysia District and the Singapore Stake and we all met at a place called Bukit Fraser (Fraser Hill).  It's located up in the mountains (I use the term loosely).  It's a heavily forested (jungle) area with some condo-type apartments where the kids and leaders stayed.

About a month ago I was asked to fill in with the Young Men for a couple of months.  I said I would be happy to do that and had been teaching the Deacons and Teachers on Sundays.  A week or so later, Sister Tracy Friend, the District YW president asked if I would also help out by coming to YC.  Not being much of a camper anymore I was hesitant but when she explained about the circumstances I agreed to go.  I was also placed in charge of one of the three service projects to be completed at YC.  About half way to Bukit Fraser there is a village called an Orang Asli village.  (Orang Asli means original people).  These would be the aboriginal people of Malaysia.  The Malaysian government has provided homes for them which are nice little bungaloes with electricity, water, etc.  They have a field for their kids to play in with bamboo stick soccer goals at either end.  The project I was placed in charge of was to construct 2 soccer goals, complete with nets, for us to install at the field on our way back home.  I was given a small budget to work with and told to make it work.  We decided to do goals made of 3" PVC pipe and I set out making a drawing of how I thought it would work.  District YM President Chris Felt (from Houston) and Sis. Friend helped me to locate where I could get some supplies.  Sis Friend suggested that I make a small mock-up just to see if my design would work, which I did.  I'm not sure if she doubted my design ability or if she thought that I doubted it, probably a little of both, but it turned out to be a good idea.  It also allowed me to try out some net material and figure out how to do that part.  The design of the frame was pretty straightforward but the net had me up at night and weaving in my dreams.

After a lot of paper and pencil work and a lot of prayer for inspiration I figured out how to make the nets.  I would make a frame out of 1x2 wood to the size of the perimeter of the net.  (I couldn't believe it but the Pythagorean Theorem actually became useful.)   A 10' by 10' square with a 10' by 7' by 7' triangle on each end.  Then we would pound nails 6 inches apart around the entire perimeter.  This would be our "loom."  Then, using a single strand of 1/8" plastic string, and following a pattern I had put to paper, we could weave the entire net on the frame, tie off each cross point with smaller string, and voila, a soccer goal net.  I figured about 600 feet of string per net and bought a little extra.  (I bought a little extra of everything and was glad I did.)

At YC I had two groups of about 20 kids for 2 1/2 hours each.  Each group cut their pipes, put them together with fittings (using the mock-up as a guide) then glued some of the pieces together (we couldn't glue it all together because we still had to transport it down the hill on the bus).  Everyone helped with the net.  We had a lot of kids with sore fingers from tying over 400 knots at all the points where the string crossed itself.  Then we removed the net from the frame and carefully folded it up.

On Thursday, on the way back home, we stopped at the Orang Asli village again, carried the pipe and nets about 1/4 mile to the field, glued up all the joints, strung the nets on the frames, anchored them down with some rope and tent pegs, and the village had brand new soccer goals.  We also donated two brand new soccer balls and as we left there were about 10 village kids out on the field playing.

We all felt grateful for what we were able to accomplish, the service we were able to provide, and I thanked the Lord for his tender mercies on my behalf and on behalf of the youth of Malaysia and Singapore.  (And a nod to Pythagoras as well.)  Remember the scarecrow in the Wizard of Oz after he got his brain?  "The square of the hypotenuse of a right triangle is equal to the sum of the squares of the other two sides."

Youth Conference was a huge success.  The kids had classes on dating, patriarchal blessings, made and performed puppet shows, put on a talent show, had relays and contests, and a big dance on the last night. The testimony meeting on the morning of departure touched me very deeply.  These kids have exactly the same hopes, fears, and dreams that any teenager in the world has.  Some are popular and outgoing, some are timid and shy, some are rich, some are poor, some are Chinese, some are Indian, some are Malaysian, some are Singaporean, and some are American, but they all loved and served one another for short, wonderful time.  I remember how I loved YC when I was a teen.  These kids had the same feelings.

The day we returned was Tobi's birthday.  I brought her some little pots I found at the resort.  It's probably about what Tobi has come to expect from me for birthdays.  She expressed her gratitude for my "thoughtfulness" as if I had given her a diamond bracelet. The next day we went out to dinner at a very nice buffet.  We celebrated the fact that she can retire in less than 4 years.

Yesterday at church we were given an assignment to Home Teach and Visit Teach all of the singles in the branch.  Tobi has a list of about 35 and I have a list of about 20 more.  Our plan is to have as many as possible come to our home once a month for a "fireside/family home evening/social" once a month.

We think of you all with love and happiness.

Scott and Tobi

Sunday, May 31, 2009

June!

Welcome to June everyone!   An interesting phenomenon living so close to the equator (about 3 degrees north) is that every month is pretty much like every other month.  So as I sit here thinking about home, the subtle differences in the months seem to take on an added importance to me.   June is one of my favorites.  Summer is all leafed out and growing.  The days are long and warm and full of life.

Yesterday we had the Elders over for dinner.  A couple of weeks ago we had the sisters over and served tacos.  This time we invited the Elders and a couple of friends from the branch, Miow Linn Yap and Graham Doxey and we served roast beef with potatoes, carrots, onions; a zuchini dish and green salad.  Brownies and ice cream for dessert.  We like to serve something that the American missionaries might miss from home and they were not disappointed.  During dinner one of the Elders told us that he has finished his mission and is actually leaving for home today (Monday).   He lived in Draper during High School and went to Alta HS, but his family has now moved to Heber City.   I told him that when he is at his mom's table next Sunday he needn't tell her that he just had roast beef and mashed potatoes last week at the Sanders.  He said he would keep that to himself.

Our sea shipment finally arrived on Friday and that day and Saturday our place looked a little chaotic.  But we (mostly Tobi) whipped it into shape in short order and now it feels a lot more like our home.  She has it fixed up very nicely with lots of family pictures and familiar artifacts on the shelves, etc.  (I tried to do a walking tour of the apartment on Skype with Robyn, Craig and my Dad, but every time I got more than 25 feet from our internet router I would lose the connection.)

I will be going to Youth Conference a week from today.  We are going to some resort area a couple of hours away and I have been put in charge of a service project involving building and installing a couple of soccer goals at a school out in the country for an Orang Asli community school.  (Orang means people and Asli means native or aboriginal.)  So getting that all ready to go and the materials purchased and delivered etc, will be my main project for this week.

I'm still not working.  I don't exactly know what the holdup is.  Something about my nefarious background apparently.  I am looking forward very much to starting work.  I love my workouts and swimming and reading by the pool, but I need more to keep busy with and to bring in some vacation money.

Tobi is loving her job more and more all the time.  She was very stressed at first and thought she may have made a big mistake but as she has gotten accustomed to her job and has done them a few times, she has become more comfortable.  Her boss, the new Legal Attache (LEGAT) arrived a week ago.  We had lunch with him the the Assistant Legal Attache (ALAT) last week.  They are both very nice guys and I think Tobi will enjoy working with them.

One of our favorite things to do in the evenings is to read blogs.  They have become very important to us.  Keep posting!  We find ourselves reading blogs of people we don't even know simply because they are on your friends lists.  

Please know that we love you all and miss you like crazy.  We can't wait until October when we get to see our kids and dads and many others.  Looks like we are going to be taking a cruise to the Greek Islands and then come home for 2 full weeks.  We will be home in Utah from the 17th or 18th of October until the 30th.  Let's plan some get-togethers.

Scott

Friday, May 22, 2009

Life is Good in KL

Life is good in KL.  I am settling into work well.  Not stressed as much as I was at first. 

I downloaded the pictures from my little camera finally.  I had forgotten to pack the computer connection cables so had to wait until they came in our air shipment and then it has just taken some time to finally get around to posting them.  I already told you all about those wonderful breakfasts at the Ritz-Carlton and now you can see what I meant.  One of my favorite things was to have the watermelon, sweet and juicy, with the blue cheese.  Oh that was the best.  Oh how I miss those breakfasts.

Monday is the Memorial Holiday and I have been trying to figure out how to go golfing.  It seems as if you have to be a member to golf.  So very confusing.

My new boss, Greg Gilmartin, just arrived this week and I met him for the first time yesterday.  He is very nice and I think he will be great to work for.  His wife, Caryn, will come with their 21 year old daughter who will only stay for a while since she is in college.  Caryn is an FBI employee and will take a leave of absence to accompany her husband.  They both golf so hopefully between the four of us we can figure out how to get a golf foursome going.

I actually told Scott I was NOT going to go to work this Saturday.  I am actually starting to be able to keep up with my work and that feels good.

We are going to have a pool day today and then go to an afternoon movie.  Doesn't that sound great.

We should be hearing about Scott's job any day now.  It will be his money that we will use on our trips.

We had the missionaries (Sisters) over for dinner last Sunday.  It was so much fun to visit with them.  They are awesome.  Because we don't have very many dishes we only had the four Sister missionaries.  We felt bad when the Sisters had talked to the Elders and found out they hadn't been invited.  We are going to have them next Sunday if they will forgive us and come.  We will have to dream up something really good.

Boy they have some terrific Thunder and lightening storms here.  The other night I was sure a bomb had gone off.  Then at work in my little cave the lights flickered and then there was a huge boom, and I even screamed because it caught me so off guard.  On Thursday, it rained so hard that the Embassy had water streaming in from everywhere.  Just amazing.  I had forgotten to pack my crocs that day and had Scott walk all the way to the Embassy to bring them so I didn't get my nice shoes soaked.  Isn't he just the nicest man.

I get up every morning and fix and curl my hair.  When I walk out my front door I look like Shirley Temple with really curly hair, but by the time I get to the Embassy I look like Greta Garbo (her later years) with practically straight hair.  I keep trying though.  I had to file down all my fingernails because they are getting so long it was bothering me when I typed.

I am a member of the Housing Board and I get to go to check out new apartments.  It is really fun and I had a chance to go see my boss's new apartment.  They look over the KLCC Park and also have the Petronas Towers for a view.  It is spectacular.  They are a little further away from the Embassy, but I would love to live so close to the park and the KLCC Mall for shopping.

We are in full swing in practicing for our Musical Presentation.  I was given a new solo part and started to practice that.  I don't like it as much as the other one I had been working on, but the range is a lot better for me.

With work getting better, life is wonderful for me, but for Scott it is a marvel.  He has been swimming almost every day and it shows.  He has a great tan and has lost a lot of weight.  He doesn't fit into his jeans anymore, but for guys that is great because the baggier the better.  

So life is good in KL.

Breakfast at the Ritz

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Fire-Fly Tour

Monday, May 11, 2009

Excursion to Bukit Malawati and Kuala Selangor

On Saturday (5/9/09), we joined a group of about 30 Embassy employees and took a bus about an hour and a half up the west coast of  peninsular Malaysia to  Kuala Selangor to visit a firefly habitat.  We boarded the bus at about 4pm and drove first west and then north along the coast.  At dinner time we stopped at a little fishing village and got on this "tram" to ride up the Bukit Malawati hill.  Bukit means hill in Bahasa.  At the top there was a beautiful vista overlooking the Straits of Malacca which are located between the Malay peninsula and the island of Sumatra.  We were greeted by a large number of Silverleaf Monkeys.  I don't think the monkeys were really friendly, they just appeared to be so in order to get their hands on the green beans we had to feed them.  I learned from watching others that if you don't hold the beans up high, they'll steal them from your hands while you're not looking.  One extra "friendly" monkey climbed up me and took a seat on my camera and waited patiently while I gave him a nice green bean.

The tram is really just an old tractor pulling a couple of wagons with seats.  About half way up the hill he pulled off the road into a parking area and made two full circles around the lot while building up speed, then it was back onto the road with added impetus and up to the top of the hill.

We had a great seafood dinner of about 6 courses.  Clams, fish, shrimp, squid, crab, all done in a delectable manner.  Here in Malaysia it seems they don't believe in shelling anything.  The shrimp, clams, and crabs were all still in their shells and cooked in a delicious sauce so it was quite a messy endeavor, especially the crabs.  You had to place a crab (fist sized and very hard shells) between some napkins, hit it with the supplied mallet, then remove the shells and then you can enjoy a bite or two.

At about 7pm we arrived at Kuala Selangor and boarded boats to go up the river to see the firefly habitat.  The boats had small electric motors to keep the sound down.  By this time it was quite dark and we were asked not to use flash cameras so we didn't get any pictures.  We crossed the river and floated along the opposite side which was covered with bushes and trees.  What we saw was quite a spectacular display.  Thousands and thousands of little tiny fireflies were sitting on the branches and leaves of each bush and emitting flashes of light from their abdominal light bulbs.

Those of you who have spent any time in Kansas City or other humid climes will remember the fireflies (lightning bugs) we used to have there.  They were much bigger and their lights would remain on for 1-2 seconds at a time and then go off for a few seconds more.  These were small and emitted very quick flashes of light in rapid succession.  The effect, along a mile or so of riverbank, was such a display of  lights as you might expect on a residential drive at Christmas time.  It was a black night, lit by a full moon, and millions of tiny flickering lights.  It was a remarkable sight!  What a memorable night it was!

A little Malaysian history is called for here.  Early in the 20th century an entrepreneurial spirit brought 9 seeds of the rubber tree from Brazil to Malaysia and planted them.  Within 50 years, Malaysia became the leading exporter of rubber in the world.  Under the governance of the British Empire, Malaysia became very important economically, particularly when war broke out.  Malaya, as it was called then, became a pawn in the game of world dominance, as Japan occupied the peninsula and exploited the rubber for use in the war.   The exigencies of war and the enormous demand for rubber brought about the development of synthetic rubber.  Very good for the allied effort in the war, very bad for post-war Malaya.

The bottom dropped out of the natural rubber industry.  Over the years, palm-oil has supplanted rubber as the #1 industry of Malaysia.  On our trip we drove past hundreds and hundreds of square miles of oil palms.  Malaysia also has a large petroleum industry and is an exporter of oil and natural gas.

I guess I took that little history lesson a little too far.  Tobi will be exasperated with me.

The more time we spend here, the more we come to love this country and its people.


Monday, May 4, 2009

Sunday, April 26, 2009

New apartment; New job 4/26/2009

Wow what a change in my life this experience is being in Kuala Lumpur.  Scott and I moved into our spacious new apartment that is right across the street from where I work.  Unfortunately there is a very busy street between work and the apartment so I have to walk a distance to take a pedestrian bridge across that busy street but it is still only about 15 minutes.  The hardest part is at the end of the day when I have to walk up those three flights of stairs to cross the bridge.  I'm sure it is good for me.  Scott has been a real sweetheart by walking me to work every morning and meeting me at the bridge when I come home.

The apartment-
It is a three bedroom apartment.  Each bedroom has its own full bathroom and then there is the "maids bathroom" and a hallway bathroom.  The kitchen is small but very pretty with black and white granite counters.  The living room and dining room are together making a nice big room.  It is so bright with full length windows in both the living room and dinning room.  There is a balcony with chairs that you could sit on.  Usually too hot for Scott and me.  We like looking out and enjoying the city views from our nice air conditioned apartment.  We have a laundry room and a storage room.  It is very nice and roomy.  I have my things spread out in all three bedrooms. Scott only has his things in two bedrooms.  We are anxious to get our sea shipment to have the rest of our furniture and get our house all fixed up.

Work-
Well I am on my own now.  It is a daunting task.  I have so much still to learn but I am starting to get the hang of things.  I am trying to organize my office so that I can find things.  I spent almost all day Saturday just trying to catch up.  I finally had to just quit and go home around 4:00 p.m.  It is going to take me quite a few hours to get it where I want it.  We have a lot going on right now.  I had to make arrangements for two FBI employees who are coming in to do a survey of our office for some new equipment.  We are having a training session for about 40 of the Malaysian Police and I have been working on that.  On Monday, I will have to finish the preparations for the five instructors coming in.  I have a good relationship with the Ritz-Carlton and put my people in there.  They are so accommodating and have taken people at a moments notice.  We have a TDY (temporary) Agent that came in until my new boss (Legat) gets here.  Greg Gilmartin is just transferring in for a three-year assignment just like me.  I also have to do everything to get Greg set up.  The annual property inventory is due and just when Beverly was going to show me what to do, I found out I didn't have the right accesses to do it.  Yikes!!  I also have a mandated financial statement due in two weeks that I have heard is unreal to fill out.  I just try to take each day at a time, because I do tend to get stressed when I look at all I have to do.  My Acting Legat is wonderful and he asked me if I would like some more training.  Of course I told him I would love it.  He asked me if I would like to go somewhere.  He told me he would send me to any legat I wanted to go to, or; if I preferred, I could have someone come in.  I told him I would prefer to have someone come in so he is making the arrangements for that.  Everyone tells me there is a magical six-month period of learning the job and after that everything changes and life becomes so much easier, so one month down five to go.

New Experiences-

We went to our first night club.  Beverly the LOA I am replacing had a going away party at a nightclub.  What an experience for two-old fogies.  Most everyone smokes and drinks and life gets pretty merry as the night progresses.  There was a girl band with one guy and they were pretty good and very cute.  After one coke light, I was having a hard time keeping Scott from going out on the dance floor and just barely managed to keep him down, it took all my power.  (Yeah, right.)  After we had been there about an hour and a half, I managed to convince Scott it was time to go.  He reluctantly left.  I found out later that lots more people came and then they went on to another club.  Maybe next time we'll stay longer???!!!

Driving is not the only thing that is different.  People also walk on the left side of the sidewalk.  Crazy, I know.  The light switches turn down when you want them on and up when you want them off.  Plus all the switches are on the same wall for everything, bathroom, bedroom, fan and hot water.  We are constantly flipping the wrong switches before we finally get the one we want.  Now that it has been almost a week we are actually starting to figure which switch to hit the first time.  We are so smart!  We have a button that flushes the toilets but at the hotel you flushed the toilets by pulling up on the handle.  Now this is the funniest thing of all.  All of the bathroom floors drop down about an inch.  We've come close to killing ourselves a time or two tripping over that little ledge.  I had the reason all figured out why this was.  There is this little hose by the toilets that I thought you used to spray on the floors to keep them clean.  Well I was wrong.  You do use them to spray with but it is not the floors it is your own backside.  I was telling Beverly about using this little hose to clean the bathroom floors and she said the ones by the toilets and I said yes, and that is when I found out what they were really used for.  We sure got a good laugh about that.  Gosh, we Americans are sure uncouth.

Church-

No callings yet, but we are involved in a musical called "Parables".  The music is very pretty.  Scott and I have solo parts and are in the choir.  The District (like our Stake) is putting it on.  We will be performing in August.  I have a business trip scheduled but couldn't quite remember the dates so am hoping it doesn't conflict with being part of this production.  Miow Lin is in charge of it and came up to me after Relief Society and asked if I would sing a solo part, so just like that I am involved.  The same thing happened to Scott and now he is involved.  I just hope I will be here for it.

Every day we become a little bit more familiar with our surroundings and every day we feel more and more like we belong.  What an experience.

Side note,  it is raining right now and about 90 degrees.