Saturday, August 22, 2009

Parables

We performed our Musical Production tonight of "Parables" written by Jenny Phillips. I bet when she wrote this musical production she would not have guessed that it would be performed half-way around the world and be the very first musical production done by the Church in Malaysia. I was surprised when our District President said that this was the first musical production ever done and Scott and I were privileged to have been part of it.

I have to admit I wasn't feeling very privileged this afternoon as Scott and I practiced our song over and over and over again. They wanted it memorized and that is just one of the hardest things for me to do. When I get scared the words just leave me. I did prepare a little cheat card to take with me. The funny thing is we missed practice last night where we would have had the spotlight on us for the first time. Then the practice this afternoon went too long and they had to stop just before our number so it wasn't until I got up there for the actual performance that I realized I couldn't read my card. Scott and I had had a little prayer just before we left and our song went perfectly. We both remembered all the words and sang the best we ever had. Got lots of really nice comments about how much everyone enjoyed our song.

One of our soloist's father had unexpectedly passed away, she had the most beautiful voice and it was very sad to lose her. The young lady who was our pianist knew all the songs but because she wasn't one of the better singers she didn't get any solo parts but she knew every song by heart. They asked her Friday night if she would fill in for our missing soloist and she did the most beautiful solo with such a sweet voice. I was so amazed.

Everyone who performed did an exceptional job and the program was wonderful. We had a packed house and I was so proud to have been on the program.

I forgot to take my camera but there were lots of cameras flashing so I hope I will be able to get a few pictures so send to you.

Sunday, August 16, 2009

New York, New York

I had to leave my cocoon here in Malaysia and travel to New York for a business meeting all by myself. I was more than nervous. I am just not that adventurous and was so scared to travel all the way to New York without Scott. It actually turned out to be easy. The trip was long and I only got a few hours sleep but no major hurdles. I did have a guy grab my suitcases to give me a taxi ride. I was on my way to the yellow cabs and this guy came up and asked me if I needed a cab and I told him yes. I thought he would call up one of the cabs that were waiting in line but instead he took off with my suitcase. He was going so fast I could hardly keep up. We went to the parking lot and there was this white van. I was confused and asked him if he was the Taxi driver. I was supposed to be meeting Trent at the airport but I couldn't get hold of him and I thought I must have missed him. After I got in this guy's van he had just driven out of the airport when I finally did get hold of Jamie and she told me to turn around that Trent was still there and she told me where I would find him. So the little trip around the airport cost me $25. I was sure glad to get out of his taxi though.

I spent a few days at Jamie's lovely home. It was wonderful driving around and seeing her part of the country. Trent showed me this one house close to their home that had just been built and it was the biggest house. As you turned the corner, this house just revealed itself to be bigger all the time. Absolutely amazing. I thought Jamie's house was big enough. I kept getting turned around. Madelyn wanted to play hide and seek and I told her I was afraid I would never find her, but she explained that we would only use the main level. Good thing, I did finally find her. I had fun playing games with the kids and getting to know them. I had no idea that when Jennie and Julia came that I would be completely abandoned. It was so fun picking Jennie and Julia at the train station. Man I loved being with them again.

We went to Jamie's church on Sunday and were in the same Sunday School class as Glenn Beck. Cool!!!

After church on Sunday, we took the train to New York. I had to be there for a 6:00 p.m. meeting to start my conference. Jessie Bingham Kehl came into town to visit us. It was so much fun to visit with her. She took the girls for a drive around the city and then I met them around 8:30 pm for dinner. It was so fun to visit with them. I was pretty tired. I slept in the roll bed and Jennie and Julia had the Queen bed. I had to get up early every morning to meet my group each morning around 7:00 a.m. The girls spent the day visiting the highlights of New York and shopping. We would meet each night for dinner and one night we went to see the play Mary Poppins. Jessie met us there. The girls left New York early Wednesday morning and I sure hated to see them go.

I had a good conference, it was really busy. I needed to get back to work on Monday, so I had a late night flight out of NY on Friday at 11:45 p.m. Before I even got to the ticket counter to get my boarding pass I had heard that my flight had been cancelled. What a terrible feeling to realize that my flight home was not going to go as planned. I also missed my connection in Taipei. I found that my flight had been cancelled because of a typhoon in China. I spent the night at a flea-bitten Holiday Inn. Not much sleep that night. I had to change rooms because the air conditioner did not work in the room first assigned to me. They told me they would send a repairman up to fix it. I waited about 30 minutes and finally just told them I wanted another room. I was so tired. It was after midnight by the time I finally got settled. I had an early wake up call and took off for the airport and got a morning flight out. Got to Taipei around 6:00 pm. I had to stay the night there and take another morning flight out the next day. I was so worried about making my early morning shuttle to the airport that I finally gave up trying to sleep that night. I was sure glad to finally get home on Monday just one day later than scheduled adding 24 hours to my 30 hour travel time.

I have to say that the traveling is not my favorite thing to do, but being with Jamie and family and especially being with my girls was worth that long, long trip.

I sure am glad to be back and with Scott again.

Sure wish I had pictures to show you but the first time I went to use my camera I found that my battery was dead and had forgotten to pack my charger. Sure was disappointed.

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

34 Wonderful Years!


Tobi and I celebrated our 34th Anniversary yesterday. I am so blessed to be married to Tobi. Last night we were trying to recount where we were and what our life had brought us on each of our previous anniversaries. Some of them were easy, like the first, when Tobi was in the hospital in Overland Park, Kansas, having delivered Justin just 2 days before. There was a single yellow rose in a vase on the shelf by her bed. (That has kind of grown into a tradition for us resulting in what you see here.) We were able to remember each of our anniversaries when a new child had joined us and when we had moved to a new house, but I'll have to admit, the second half of the '80s and the '90s are pretty much a blur.

I want everyone to know how much I love this beautiful lady. She is my sweetheart and my very best friend. Life is an adventure with her by my side. Life continues to bring us new challenges sprinkled here and there with wonderful experiences, stunning vistas, and exciting opportunities.

We love and miss our family and friends.

Scott

Sunday, July 26, 2009

This Week in Malaysia

Scott was sustained and set apart today as the new 1st counselor in the Kuala Lumpur Branch Presidency.  The 2nd counselor was released, so for now, Scott is the only counselor to President Tennyson Renner.  Lots of challenges.  The branch has about 300 members but only about 100 active.  There are many wonderful people in the branch and they have such strength.  We have a lot of work to do in going back to collect the sugarbeets that have fallen off the truck.  (See the message from Pres. Monson in the July Ensign.)

Tobi travels to New York this week and will be meeting up with Jennie and Julia while there.  Tobi leaves KL on Thursday, and arrives in NY on Friday.  She and the girls will be spending the weekend with Jamie and Trent Handy (Tobi's sister, Candy's daughter) and their family, until Sunday, when Tobi has to be in NY.  Jennie and Julia will be arriving on Saturday and staying with Tobi in NY until Wednesday I believe.  If Tobi can get over the jet lag quickly they should have a lot of fun.  Scott wishes he could be there, but Scott would have to pay his own way so no dice.  Tobi returns to KL on August 8th.

We are proud of our son-in-law Brock for completing the Pioneer Day Marathon with a PR, and of Julia for climbing to the top of Mt. Timpanogos (one week after skydiving for the first time.)  We are so proud of all of our kids and grandkids and their accomplishments.  Thank you all for keeping up with the blogging.  You can't imagine how much it means to us over here on the other side of the world.  Some of you could do better.  (You know who you are.)

Love,  Scott and Tobi

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Some of the things I do in Malaysia



Walk around the city and to work.



Walking around the city is interesting.  They are building new buildings everywhere and renovating many others.  If you walk past these building sites you have to be very careful because there is no protection from the work site.  On the picture above I walked right under the crane and through the mud.  On my way to work, they built new stairs for the pedestrian bridge.  Before they had even finished those stairs they blocked off the ones I use and I had to walk around the workers and there was building materials all over the stairs.  Quite a hazard.  Then the sidewalk I always walk on was ripped out and I had to walk in the street with all the traffic.  Very dangerous but no one seems to mind.

Teach the cutest and smartest class in Primary


These are the little girls in my primary class.  They are wonderful.  The Primary room was soo cold that I started bringing all my scarves to wrap them up.  Aren't they cute.  They are so smart.  They know at least two languages and some of them more.  Every week as I review the lesson from the week before they just astound me at how much they remember.  I am loving being a Primary Teacher again.

Preparing for a Musical Production of "Parables".


Scott and I are in a musical production of "Parables".  Miow Lin is our director.  She is also a good friend of ours.  We have had her over for dinner a few times and just love talking to her.  She is busy helping the Church translate the Book of Mormon and other documents into the Malaysian language.  She is also the Sunday School teacher and is a marvel.  I do miss her SS classes now that I am in the Primary.




Thursday, July 16, 2009

Lunar Ulnar

Those of a certain age will remember exactly where they were and what they were doing 40 years ago this week on July 20, 1969.  It was one of those kind of events that is life altering.  Maybe our lives weren't changed radically when Neil Armstrong stepped off the ladder of the Lunar Landing Module and onto the talcum-powder surface of the moon.  But as we watched our black and white TV screens and saw the grainy image of a man walking about "up there," our perceptions of the world and its frontiers was irretrievably altered.

I was 17 and had just graduated from Shawnee Mission West High School in Overland Park, Kansas.  We were living at 7201 Hadley in Overland Park in a nice two-story house with a basement.  My parents had the house built and we moved-in in 1965 from our old house on 70th Street, where we had lived since 1958.

My friend, Milan Monk, was spending the night and for some reason Rebecca Barker was there too, although I don't remember the circumstances of why.  Together with my parents and some of my brothers and sisters we gathered in the family room late in the evening and watched the non-stop coverage of the event.  

In my youth I had been a big fan of the science fiction genre and Andre Norton in particular. Her portrayals of alien worlds and other sentient beings in the cosmos enthralled me and made me think of great possibilities.  Now to see us, the residents of this small planet, take the first step in exploring another world, was truly a landmark event, not just in the history of America, but in the history of mankind.  Armstrong's words were so appropriate from that perspective, "That's one small step for a man, one giant leap for mankind."

Yesterday, the Embassy hosted our visiting physician from the Embassy in Singapore (we don't have our own).  I decided to make an appointment to see him.  For the past month I have had numbness in my left hand, mostly in the little finger and in the little-finger-side of the ring finger, extending down into the palm.  It's not completely numb; I can feel when I touch it with something but it feels like when your leg goes to sleep.  I thought initially that it was something that would go away as I have had similar feelings in other places that have done so.  But it didn't.  It's been constant since June 11th or so.  I have also had some attendant weakness in the fingers of that hand.  More of an annoyance than anything else, although it did cause concern that it may be something serious.  Tobi suggested that I start taking Vitamin B.

I consulted with my niece, Carrie Hanis, a Physical Therapist, and she said that it likely has to do with the Ulnar nerve which runs from the spine, through the shoulder, elbow, wrist and serves the little finger and half of the ring finger.  I told her that I thought it was something in my wrist or hand that was pinching the nerve, but she said she thought it was more likely the elbow area where your "funnybone" area is.  She offered advice of using ice and ibuprofen to reduce inflammation that may be causing the restriction of the nerve.

The Doctor told me basically the same things that Carrie had and that I needed to have a specific test done by a neurologist to determine exactly where the lack of nerve function originated and thus localize where the restriction is.

Yesterday afternoon I went to the new Prince Court Medical Center which is just a 15 minute walk down Jalan Tun Razak from our condo.  I met with a Neurologist, Dr. Hamidoon, and he set up the electric response test for me.  A couple of nurses hooked me up with some electrical sensors on my palm, wrist and fingers and then zapped me with jumper cables (just kidding).  It looked like a miniature defibrillator that they would place on my wrist, my forearm, and my upper arm just above the elbow.  This instrument was attached to a computer monitor and recorded the level and speed of the electrical current from the point of contact to the sensors.  They did both arms, I suppose for a control test.

After 30 minutes or so of my hands flapping about involuntarily from the electrical shocks, the doctor came in, looked at the results and said, "Just as I thought, it's in the elbow."  (Way to go Carrie.)

He said the next step is to have a consultation with an Orthopedic Surgeon.  I asked when I might be able to schedule that, and he said, "How about now?"  I went then to see Dr. Badrul.  He said that he wanted to do three things;  first, start me on Vitamin B-12  (Kudos to Tobi).
For treatment of the actual problem he said we could either do an MRI to see if there is something restricting the ulnar nerve, or simply begin with steroid injections, however, the steroid injections might compromise the ability to do an MRI later.  I requested the MRI and asked when I might schedule that.  He said, "How about 5:30?"

So the last thing I did yesterday was had an MRI.  That's quite an experience for those of you who haven't been so lucky.  They lay me on a table, wrapped up my left elbow in some sort of pad, strapped me in and slid me, table and all, into the cylindrical opening of this large Magnetic Resonance Imagery machine.  Then you start hearing all sorts of loud pulses and humms and vibrations, each louder and more intense than the last.  You have to lie completely still throughout the 30 minutes or so, and it starts to get warm and your back starts to hurt and you want to move and you can't, and you start thinking of evil things to do to the technician when you get out of there.  Finally it's over and they slide you out.  All I could muster was "the stare" that my kids and various inattentive drivers are familiar with.

Anyway, that's all I know up to now.  I've got some sort of an impairment of my ulnar nerve in my left elbow.  It may be treatable with B-12 or steroid injections, or it may require surgery.  All to be found out in the next few days.  I have a follow-up with the Orthopod tomorrow (Saturday).  

Dr. Brown, the Singapore Embassy Doctor wants me to send him any test results from here so that he can consult and decide if he agrees with the findings and suggest anything different.

So that's it for now.  The greatest lesson learned in this experience was, (once again) trust the women.  Thank you Carrie, Tobi, and Andre Norton.

Scott 


Sunday, June 21, 2009

This and That

The watering system at our apartment.




A picture of the American Embassy as I walk out the gate from our apartment.